I Am Becoming Cheesy
A few seconds ago, this article was telling how much my view of the couple has changed since I’m in a relationship. The title was the same and it would have ended by saying how cheesy I’m becoming, because sometimes I feel like I’m like any girl in a bad romantic comedy. I deleted all of it because it was way too cheesy.
I don’t know where the cheese all comes from. I didn’t know I had it in me, actually. Having been single for 22 years of my life, I thought I’d be someone strong and independant. Turns out I just want to be with him all the time, and when I’m not, I feel like something’s missing. It is a great feeling, but I can’t help but look at myself and find it annoying. How could someone change so much in my life in such a short period of time? Two months ago, I didn’t even know he existed. That’s just crazy.
Now that I’m done with the cheesyness, I think I’m going to write an article about my life. Sorry to be so self-centered, but this is my blog, after all.
I know what you mean. Well, not personally, but I’ve seen lots of my friends go through that. It’s just a phase – they all got over it. I think it’s just the original elation at finding someone who makes you feel loved and special and everything. :) I’m absolutely positive that you will stop annoying yourself and settle into a comfortable relationship soon! :D <3
Thanks Lindsay! But as much as I don’t want to annoy myself, I’m not sure I actually want that feeling to go away soon. It is annoying, but you only get that once in a relationship… I don’t know. It’s weird.
No, I totally understand. :) I’m sure when you get to that point, though, you won’t really miss the early days. I mean, sure, it was awesome, but to quote Ross from Friends, “Not everyone has the passion and excitement at the beginning, but everyone wants the trusting, stable, loving relationship at the end.” …Or something like that? Um… Yeah. I watched that episode a few days ago, I’ve really forgotten what he said, lol. ANYWAY, oooh, I can relate it to Doctor Who. It’s like the transition between 9 and 10 – you thought you loved 9 and nothing could top his performance, but then 10 comes along and you’re all, “Ohmygod, I love 10! He’s great! This is awesome.” So you loved 9 and 10 both and they’re equally awesome, just in different ways. :D
I’m really not sure if that analogy made any sense. Quite frankly, I’m not sure if the entire post made any sense. XD My mind is too focused on hockey, but I tried.
It totally made sense, yeah. That Doctor Who analogy is hilarious. I get it, though.
I’ve never watched Friends, so I have no idea who Ross is, but I like what he (might have) said, =P. I feel like I’ve always wanted the “trusting, stable, loving relationship” first, and that’s probably why I find the excitement kind of annoying.
But even though I did watch Doctor Who just to see David Tennant in it, I didn’t think Christopher Eccleston was annoying at all. I know that’s not what the analogy said, but I just wanted to make that clear, XD.
After all, even if I was looking forward to watch David Tennant in action, I didn’t want Christopher Eccleston to go…
Wow, we are good at this relationship stuff. We should write a book. Or something.
Haha, awesome. I’m glad you understood, ’cause I re-read that and didn’t think it made much sense. :p
Lol, yeah, I understand. :) I didn’t think Eccleston was annoying, either. I was also sad when he left. <3
We are pretty good at this! We should write a book. XD That's a great idea. Although I don't know why people think I'm good at relationships, seeing as I've had none myself… I don't understand. :p
It might be your scientific mind. You collect the information from your subjects (aka your friends that are in relationships), then you observe the variables and register how they react in certain situations. It probably helps that you’ve had none yourself, because you’re not biased by your own experience. You could create a math formula about that, like Colin Singleton in An Abundance of Katherines! Have you read it? I think you would like it. It’s full of math. And nerds. Oh, and the main girl character’s name is Lindsay. Or was it Lindsey? Anyways. She’s cool.
Haha! I like how you think. :) Ohmygod, An Abudance of Katherines was AWESOME! Colin is amazing. <3 I should totally make a formula…